Spiritual Maturity

It’s not about what you know; it’s about what you do.

- Jason Anderson, Speaking Pastor, Eagle Brook Church (listen/view online Sept 22&23 at www.eaglebrookchurch.com)

 

I-35W bridge collapse

"I am not skilled to understand what God has willed, what God has planned." That is the first line of Aaron Shust's song "My Savior, God." The Christian radio station played that this morning after a report from a woman who was requesting prayer for her friend who has not been heard from since the bridge on I35W collapsed. She said her friend's husband and two daughters are at the hotel where families are waiting for word of their loved ones. It is hard to imagine that God could be glorified in this tragedy, but I firmly believe that He will.

My little family and the friends we have heard from are safe. Thank you, Jesus. I got home yesterday at about 6:20 and sat and watched the television in stunned silence. My mouth literally hung open. I remember thinking that I should close it because it was so cliche that it was hanging open, but when I closed it, it just fell open again.

Thank you to all of our friends and family who checked in with us. That bridge is not part of our daily route in any way. We stick pretty close to the St. Paul side, but whenever we go to Minneapolis, that is the route we take. I have sat on that bridge in rush hour traffic many times on my way to meetings and events. In fact, when Charlie and his dad go to the Twins game on Saturday, they would have taken the bridge, but not now.

I was most concerned about my coworker Ron who lives in South Minneapolis, but he is here safe and sound this morning. He said he crossed the bridge about 30 minutes before the collapse. I know that he is especially stunned today.

Let's all pray today for the survivors, the victims, their friends and families, and for everyone working in that area today and in the coming weeks and months. Pray for the rerouted traffic and for everyone affected by this tragedy.

Something comforting to me was after a prayer from our governor Tim Pawlenty this morning on the Christian radio station, they played "I Can Only Imagine" by MercyMe. It was an awesome reminder to me that our brothers and sisters who are trapped under the bridge or in the water right now aren't really there. They've already met Jesus face to face and are in His glorious presence.

37 weeks!

Baby and I are doing well. We’re officially term today at 37 weeks, but I don’t plan on seeing our new little guy for at least another 2-3 weeks. I slept a lot over the weekend, but I got a lot done too. Michelle came over on Friday night to help me move furniture and vacuum our bedroom. We’ve got it all set up with the bassinet and glider. Sunday we made final runs to Babies R Us and Wal-Mart for baby supplies. I pulled out my breast pump and verified it works and that I have all the pieces I need.

Yesterday my friend Wendy from my Bible study group brought a car seat, swing (fancy one that swings both ways), and a rocker/bouncer for me. Her daughter will be a year in May, and they’re done with them, so she’s giving it all to me. Is that awesome or what!!! Everything is in perfect condition, but I pulled all the covers off and washed them last night. We’re really getting down to it! Any ideas on how I can thank Wendy and her family? Gift certificate? Have them over for dinner? Both?

I did stay home yesterday morning to sleep; I just could not pull myself out of bed. Then I didn’t feel all that great all day either. I had a lot of trouble falling asleep last night, so maybe I got too much sleep. I am feeling much better today. I think it has a lot to do with my attitude … hormones, feelings, etc. I have a dr’s appointment on Wednesday morning, and I think I’ll ask her about cutting my work schedule down a bit – maybe to just 3 or 4 days a week. It’d be nice to just have one day a week to myself to catch up on sleep or whatever I need to be doing around the house.

If you could, say a prayer for my friend Tara who I work with at Trane. She’s due June 21 with her third baby, and she has been diagnosed with preclampsia (high blood pressure). She was in the emergency room all day Friday while they monitored her bp and treated her for the headache that comes with the high bp. They told her to come back in if her bp didn’t go down or the meds they gave her didn’t help with the headache. Well, she didn’t go back, but we finally convinced her today to go back and get monitored for the day again because her headaches have not gone away, and her bp has not gone down. I don’t know what they’ll do – put her on bed rest maybe. I know that will drive her crazy. Just please keep her and her baby in your prayers.

Megan and Shea are doing well. We are taking them to the new brother/new sister class at the hospital on Thursday evening, and I can’t wait. I remember how much fun Megan had diapering, feeding, and swaddling her “baby” when we took the class before Shea arrived. I’m also excited to tour the hospital and get to see the babies in the nursery. I will really be itching to have this baby then!

A quick note to Baby

Baby, Baby, just 5 weeks to go! I'm jealous because your Aunt Melody and Uncle Kenny just had their baby - Josephine Harper. I'm very excited to meet my new niece, but it reminds me how anxious I am to hold my own new little baby! Continue to grow strong and well, and we'll be seeing each other soon!

Josephine Harper W was born!

We have a new niece/cousin! Kenny and Melody (Charlie's sister and her husband) had their second baby girl on Friday, March 30. Little Josephine was greeted by excited big sister, 2.5 year old, Eva Cecilia. Mom, Baby, and everyone is doing great - Praise the Lord!

We hope to see all of them this summer, but here are some pictures for in the mean time.

Pregnancy update

Keeping my body at a comfortable temp has been more difficult lately; it's supposed to 75°F today! I was telling Charlie that I don't know how I handled being pregnant in the summer because I was dying yesterday in the high 60s with 60% humidity.

I'm feeling a bit antsy today because I was super productive over the weekend, and I just want to keep it going. I bought some baby essentials and some stuff for Easter on Saturday. Charlie and I worked a bit in the yard, and I finally got the Christmas lights down. I moved Shea's clothes into another dresser to make room for Baby, then I sorted baby clothes and washed the 0–3 mo and 3–6 mo items. I also packed a big bag of items for charity that I've been saving since Megan was a baby that I'm sure someone else can use. I still need to fold everything and get it put away, and I'd much rather be doing that right now.

We're just 6 weeks from meeting our new little one, and we cannot wait! I think he will love Luke Skywalker (aka Shea) and Megan - the jump-roping princess. :-)

The only pregnancy comment you should ever make

This comic says it all ...

As many of you know, I have been receiving a fair amount of inappropriate pregnancy comments lately, so I am making a mental note that the only things you ever say about a pregnant woman are about how radiant, beautiful, wonderful they look. If it's not that, don't say it.

Things such as the following are off limits:

• Is it just me or are you getting really big, really fast?
• Are you sure there aren’t twins in there!
• Wow, you grew a lot over the weekend!

Now, having said that, I hope you all know that I would not trade my pregnancy belly for anything in the entire world. I just pray every day that Baby Boy Scobba is growing strong and healthy in there and that I would be doing the best for this baby even now before he's born.

Have a great day! Hugs from me. :-)

Happy St. Patrick's Day!

Kenny, Melody, and Eva sent Megan and Shea a care package that included these cool St. Patty's hats and glasses, so we had to get a couple of pictures to share. Shea insisted on having one with his hat covering his whole head - whatta clown. :-)

Click on the pictures to see them larger.

I love my kids

Megan

I talked to Charlie yesterday on the phone, and I asked him if he’d seen Megan at school. He said that yes he had. He saw her walking down the hall with her first grade class. Mrs. Hulit was leading a nice, orderly line of first graders, and Megan was on the end with her arms in the air, spinning in a circle as she moved along the hallway.

Maybe the mom in me should be upset that she wasn’t “towing the line,” but I just love that she was enjoying the moment. I don’t think I’ve ever been that free-spirited, even at that age. Charlie said her teacher Barbara was just smiling about it.

Shea and Baby

We put the crib up and the basinet together this weekend. Just 8 weeks ‘til baby! Shea is soooo excited about having the crib in his room. He asks me multiple times a day when his baby brother is going to sleep in his room with him. I keep telling him that it’ll be when the snow melts. I don’t have the heart to tell him that even after Baby arrives, he won’t be sleeping in the crib right away. We’ll cross that bridge when we come to it.

I’m kind of worried that Megan is a little bit jealous, so I’ve been talking up how Megan has her own room and how she’s the big sister as a counter balance. She seems happy with that.

Shea wants to call the baby – Baby Boy. He thinks that’s the best name. Megan doesn’t know what we should call him; she just knows she doesn’t like most of the names her dad comes up with. :-p

 

 

It's a boy!

I know that I am so very late on this, but I still wanted to share our pictures from our 20-week ultrasound on December 20, 2006.

I was so excited because I had been dying to know, and it was so awesome to see that he is growing fine with all the necessary parts and pieces. I had been feeling him move a lot the week or so before the u/s. Charlie even got to feel him the Monday before!

Megan was hoping for a little sister, but she's still excited. I told someone she was disappointed, and she said, "Mom, I'm not disappointed." So, she's not disappointed. ;-) Shea didn't seem to care either way until right before, he started asking me if I had a baby boy in my tummy. I guess he was right! It'll be fun to have the two little boys close in age, and I know Megan will just love having a baby in the house.

We're 29 weeks pregnant

I just wanted to post some pictures of our baby bellies now that we're in our third trimester with just 11 weeks until Baby Boy Scobba arrives. I'll post a note I wrote to Baby in my journal today too.

I can't believe we're in the 3rd trimester, Baby! The time is going so quickly. we can't wait to meet you. :-) But Momma needs to get busy preparing things for you. You are going to share a room with your big brother Shea. He has a very cute room that's painted blue with fun Cars bedding and a Cars rug. He has lots of balls and cars to play with too. You'll love it! :-)